Hey guys!
Update journal time!
I know, I've made a few statuses about what's been happening in my life, but I figured I'd make a journal with a little bit more detail as to what's been happening on my end. With that said, let's just jump right into it:
Work
So, I know I have mentioned this before, but I did get a new job recently. And no, it's not the tea shop that I said that I was working in. That wound up not working out, which I will get into in a moment. But I work at a clothing store called Forever 21. They seemed to really need people and wound up hiring me and giving me a decent amount of hours to the point where I wind up passing out from exhaustion. Now mind you, clothing stores aren't usually too hard, but the store I work for gets a decent amount of people buying from it. So I wind up hauling loads of clothes from the fitting rooms over to my assigned section (Forever 21 is divided into sections of different styles, but it'll take a bit too long to talk about, so I will spare you from an essay-long explanation
). And that can get very tiring.
Anyways!
The tea shop I got hired at wound up not working out, because they basically took me off the schedule. No, they didn't fire me. But they made it so I didn't have any hours there. And there is a reason for this. Basically, the company bases your hours on your productivity. In other words, the more you sell, the more hours they give you. I wound up not getting them enough sales. And as a result, they completely took away my hours. They said it wasn't anything personal, and I understood. At the same time, I felt a little thrown under the bus, but I knew they weren't doing it to spite me. Which I genuinely respect. So I wound up looking for another job, which wound up being Forever 21. I still shop at the tea shop....after all, I still love their teas.
Family
So this next one, I won't give away too many details. But I will give you the summary of what happened. So my dad has been sick. And he has been for some time. I won't say what it is, but I will let you know that it is treatable. And he will be okay. He says he is okay now, but I still worry about him tremendously. He had to go to the hospital about a month ago (wow, time flies. I was going to say a couple of weeks ago, but now it's been a whole month....geez!), and wound up staying there for a couple of nights for observation. He's somewhat improved since then, but he will eventually need to go to the doctor once again to see what some treatment options are. I will stop it there, since I don't want to get into it too much. But once again, he will be okay. I promise you guys that.
Mental and Physical Health
So this one is a bit more of a sensitive topic for me, but I wanted to let you guys in on a few things going on with my mental and physical health. While my physical and mental health isn't at its best, it's not at its worst. Honestly speaking, however, it's still worrisome. Mentally, I've been better lately, but I still have my share of problems. The most prominent one is anxiety/panic attacks. At my job before the tea shop, panic attacks were a very,
very frequent problem (mostly because my job prior to the tea shop was a terrible experience....and I worked there for three whole years, so uh.......yeaaaaaah). Since leaving that job, my panic attacks lessened. But that doesn't mean that they went away.
Let me just, really quick, paint you a picture of what my panic attacks were like.
So let's say, you get one little thought in your head. And this isn't a good thought. It's something that has bothered you for some time.....maybe months, maybe even
years. But this thought soon develops another thought. And another. And even more. Until finally, floods of negative thoughts or memories are completely overtaking your mind to the point of literally breaking into tears. And it doesn't stop. Not for a while, anyway. And your body is now incapable of moving without physically shaking.
Yeah.
That's what it was like for me.
I haven't had one of those panic attacks since starting my job at Forever 21, thankfully. In fact, it's been a pretty good distraction aside from doodling and chatting away happily with my dad. I've mostly been giving myself distractions in order to prevent it.
Although, with my shifts at Forever 21, I find that I have less time to eat much or find myself eating at irregular hours of the night. Sometimes, I find myself not eating much at all. And as a result.....I've lost a lot of weight. Honestly, knowing me....that's not a good thing. I know I need to gain some back to be at a healthy weight.....but I'm very, very stubborn about it. I know I have a problem....but I haven't gotten around to try and fix that problem. I know. I'm pretty bad at that. I'll keep trying though!
Artwork
I have been working quite a bit on my art during my free time. Although there isn't much time that I have, I still make an effort to work on it.
And I know I've said this before, but let me say this again, just in case there are some people who didn't see the description in two of my most recent pieces.
I did try and acquire the advanced programs through downloading them onto my laptop and/or my regular computer. But both ran into problems whenever I tried. The computer(s) either got some sort of virus on them or lagged whenever I tried to download the programs. So, for now, I am stuck with the program that I have. It's not advanced in any way, but I am trying to utilize it in the best way that I can. And since it has been a while since a have tinkered with my artwork (you are all aware of the massive hiatus I was on....and I apologize for that), my works might come off as a bit rusty. So do pardon me if my stuff doesn't seem up to par.....it has been a while, after all
Either way, I will continue to do my best and have fun with it!
So there you have it! My update journal!
Dang.......that was super long winded
Sorry if you had to suffer through all the reading
If you just skipped to the end, I understand perfectly.....I find myself doing that sometimes too
But no matter, I appreciate you guys for reading this, and for bearing with me all this time!
Much love to you all, and as always, take care guys
~animedugan